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Min pappa min pappas tjej och min farbror är verkligen bäst fick den enda boken som fattas i min samling av camilla läckberg idag av pappas tjej :)


Sen fick jag pengar av både pappa och min farbror:). och mina skor av pappa sen fick jag även marabou choklad och ahlgrens bilar med choklad av min farbror har varit så bortskämmd idag och ibland Älskar jag det så mkt :D. Ska snart möta marcus blir nog inget mer inlägg idag men kommer uppdatera imorgon. PUSSSSSSSS

Nu ska jag fixa om i bloggen eller ska försöka är inte världsbäst direkt på de menmen så ni får ursäkta att det kommer se konstigt ut här ett tag !

Har inte orkat blogga förens nu!

Tidigare idag så fick jag ett sms om att mina skor har kommit ringde till pappa och kollade om han kunde köra mig och hämta ut dom men han sa att han inte hann för att dom skulle till pappas tjejs son och inte heller skulle dom kunna fixa någon mat till mig förens senare när dom skulle komma hem blev väldigt arg och pappa blev så arg så han la på. Efter mindre än en halvtimme så ringde han upp mig och kollade om jag hade lugnat ner mig var självklart fortfarande sur eftersom jag inte mått bra idag och har därför inte kunnat laga mat själv men ångrade mig fort när han sa att kan skulle köpa kinamat till mig blev glad och beslutade mig för att va snäll och skita i att hämta ut mina skor även fast jag har längtat så mkt efter dom! Men Får dom imorgon ska försöka städa lite på mitt rum i morgon så ska gå upp tidigt så jag hinner duscha med sen har pappa lovat mig att vi ska hämta ut dom imorgon så visar dom för er då :).

Just nu väntar jag på att se vilka som åker ut från lets dance hoppas inte Mathias eller Molly åker ut dom e klart bäst enligt mitt tycke!

Ja ni ser ju rubriken. Jag kan inte sova sjukt jobbigt ligger i min säng i min ensamhet känns sjukt konstigt att sova själv i min säng första gången på länge. Ska in och kolla efter skor snart tror jag nämligen så att min pojkvän är skyldig mig 1000 kr som jag kommer få snart då vill ja shoppa sen ska jag och pappa gå på bokrean och köpa böcker till mig sen ska vi in och kolla på skor och eftersom jag känner min pappa och han hatar att gå i affärer så ska jag nog kolla på internett efter lite  fast får nog bli ett par vinterskor eftersom att denna tråkiga vinter inte lär lämna lilla sverige på ett bra tag känns det som! MAN BLIR SÅ HIMLA DEPPIG!. Ser mina sommarskor i min garderob och vill bara ha sommmmmmar! Men, men jag är ju inte den enda i sverige som måste lida fast vissa kanske gillar så här mkt snö :). Jaja får se om min syster loggar in snart annars måste jag nog lägga mig och försöka sova har ställt klockan på halv 9 imorgon så får inte bli för sent att lägga mig. Men lär uppdatera mer om jag inte kan sova sen och fall jag inte gör de så godnatt :)!

He Knew.

Years ago Michael and I were having a deep conversation about life in general.

I can’t recall the exact subject matter but he may have been questioning me about the circumstances of my Fathers Death.

At some point he paused, he stared at me very intensely and he stated with an almost calm certainty, “I am afraid that I am going to end up like him, the way he did.”

I promptly tried to deter him from the idea, at which point he just shrugged his shoulders and nodded almost matter of fact as if to let me know, he knew what he knew and that was kind of that.

14 years later I am sitting here watching on the news an ambulance leaves the driveway of his home, the big gates, the crowds outside the gates, the coverage, the crowds outside the hospital, the Cause of death and what may have led up to it and the memory of this conversation hit me, as did the unstoppable tears.

A predicted ending by him, by loved ones and by me, but what I didn’t predict was how much it was going to hurt when it finally happened.

The person I failed to help is being transferred right now to the LA County Coroners office for his Autopsy.

All of my indifference and detachment that I worked so hard to achieve over the years has just gone into the bowels of hell and right now I am gutted.

I am going to say now what I have never said before because I want the truth out there for once.

Our relationship was not “a sham” as is being reported in the press. It was an unusual relationship yes, where two unusual people who did not live or know a “Normal life” found a connection, perhaps with some suspect timing on his part. Nonetheless, I do believe he loved me as much as he could love anyone and I loved him very much.

I wanted to “save him” I wanted to save him from the inevitable which is what has just happened.

His family and his loved ones also wanted to save him from this as well but didn’t know how and this was 14 years ago. We all worried that this would be the outcome then.

At that time, In trying to save him, I almost lost myself.

He was an incredibly dynamic force and power that was not to be underestimated.

When he used it for something good, It was the best and when he used it for something bad, It was really, REALLY bad.

Mediocrity was not a concept that would even for a second enter Michael Jackson’s being or actions.

I became very ill and emotionally/ spiritually exhausted in my quest to save him from certain self-destructive behavior and from the awful vampires and leeches he would always manage to magnetize around him.

I was in over my head while trying.

I had my children to care for, I had to make a decision.

The hardest decision I have ever had to make, which was to walk away and let his fate have him, even though I desperately loved him and tried to stop or reverse it somehow.

After the Divorce, I spent a few years obsessing about him and what I could have done different, in regret.

Then I spent some angry years at the whole situation.

At some point, I truly became Indifferent, until now.

As I sit here overwhelmed with sadness, reflection and confusion at what was my biggest failure to date, watching on the news almost play by play The exact Scenario I saw happen on August 16th, 1977 happening again right now with Michael (A sight I never wanted to see again) just as he predicted, I am truly, truly gutted.

Any ill experience or words I have felt towards him in the past has just died inside of me along with him.

He was an amazing person and I am lucky to have gotten as close to him as I did and to have had the many experiences and years that we had together.

I desperately hope that he can be relieved from his pain, pressure and turmoil now.

He deserves to be free from all of that and I hope he is in a better place or will be.

I also hope that anyone else who feels they have failed to help him can be set free because he hopefully finally is.

The World is in shock but somehow he knew exactly how his fate would be played out some day more than anyone else knew, and he was right.

I really needed to say this right now, thanks for listening.